Health

Should minimum age for marriage of girls be raised to 21

A legal amendment will not be enough; an environment should be created for female children to realise their dreams

 
By Ghasiram Panda
Published: Sunday 26 July 2020
The courage to say no to child marriage will be more when an environment is created for girls to realise their dreams. Photo: https://www.wallpaperflare.com/

Mili’s parents fixed her marriage when she was in Class 9. Nevertheless, Mili had a dream. With the support of an Anganwadi worker, she could somehow manage to convince her parents to stop the marriage.

Now in class 10, Mili wants to be a nurse. However, her family’s poor economic condition is an obstacle to this.

Her father is a fisherman, who supports a family of six. Mili is the eldest among three sisters and a brother. There is a push factor for her early marriage because her parents feel that unless they get Mili married well in advance, it will be difficult to marry the younger two girls off on time. They fear that with the girls getting older, they will have to spend more for dowry; they want to avoid such an eventuality.

There is nobody to counsel Mili on how she should go about fulfilling her dream. Her queries about nusring and the expenditure to be borne to become a nurse are yet to be addressed. Hemmed in by all this, she is often apprehensive about the fulfillment of her dream, despite having strong determination.

Many adolescent girls have similar aspirations. These have grown stronger considering the increasing presence and performance of women in the workforce. Most adolescent girls aspire to be educated, paid and exposed to the world. They want to be capable enough to choose where, when and whom to marry. Then again, everyone is not that fortunate.

Because of lack of opportunity and encouragement, many such aspirations get stifled early. According to National Family Health Survey data, 26.8 per cent of girls are marrying below the legal age nationally.

Most of these marriages occur between the age of 14 and 18. Before completing their childhood, they become mothers of other children. Victims of child marriage are deprived of all kinds of child rights. Their access to education is stalled.

Many of them face domestic and sexual violence. Because of severe anaemia and malnutrition, many die during pregnancy or delivery. Life ends before  dreams get wings to fly.

Recently, the Government of India constituted a committee to increase the age of marriage for girls to 21 years, from 18 years currently. In this context, I had an opportunity to interact with young voices to understand their views.

Surprisingly, their thoughts were almost similar. Why is there more emphasis on marriage, they asked? The focus should be more on safety, security, education, training, employment and income generation, they said.

Just a legal amendment to hike the age up to 21 will not work unless adolescents and youth are self-reliant. Hence, ensuring an enabling environment should be the need of the hour as expressed by many.

Adolescents do not have a platform to discuss sexuality and physical integrity yet. Increasing understanding of changes in body and mind during adolescence will be helpful in deciding on choosing a partner.

Encouragement for higher education, counselling for career, social and financial support for vulnerable families may enable girls to spend more years in school. This will automatically push the age of marriage.

The courage to say no to child marriage will be more when an environment is created for girls to realise their dreams. This will encourage them to be innovative and do things differently.

Ghasiram Panda is the national manager of the Ending Child Marriage Programme of Action Aid India. Views are the authors own

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